Wednesday, 14 August 2019

Morning Pages #58 Wants vs Needs


I’ve been trying to start up these morning pages again. The last one was in…June. Wow, the 10th of June. 2 months…why...I just wasn’t feeling it or I  didn’t wake up in time, one of the two. It’s 11:18 am no nothing because I want to write this down.
Humm, let me see what has happened in 2months…well, that course I was doing is over…what else…um…oh I discovered want vs need lists and I’m obsessed. I recently read or maybe I watched it on YouTube (probably a YouTube video) that you should focus on your wants and not your needs because if you focus on the needs that’s what you’ll be focused on.
Example…I want a man who will love me for who I am waltz and all. I need my crush to be happy. Let’s call a spade a spade I’m truly madly deeply in love with the guy who doesn’t even know my name (he knows my name).
If you’re going to sit at your computer/ laptop/ holding your mobile and say

‘Why didn’t you tell him,’

You obviously don’t know me, which is fine not a lot of people do. I just want my happiness more. I tried one for my future hubby, which I won’t be sharing…Ok, maybe I’ll share one or two. I want someone who makes me laugh. I need someone who is funny.

Same thing,’

It’s not though.
I don’t care if everyone else thinks he’s funny I just need him to make me smile. As appose to the other. Honestly, this list was a little more difficult than the first, deciding what was a want and what was a need. Someone who wants to get married and have kids and is attracted to me (and vice versa) is a want. But is respectful, Empathic, Reliable and Unselfishness want or needs.

24 minutes, see you when I see you hopefully not in another 2 months.

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